*hugs muchly* All of my close friends (well, the local ones anyway) are married, save one. But it isn't alienating at all. I suspect that that's because they've all been together for so long. They're all still "in love", but it's not... I dunno... It's not getting in the way, if you know what I mean? And boy am I glad it doesn't, because not knowing where to put your eyes suck. It makes me all squirmy inside. :p